Viewer's Remorse

Television. Whether you consider it to be an art form, a cheap form of entertainment, or a means by which lobotomies can be performed sans incision, you have to admit that it's an integral part of our lives. Crazier yet, now with DVRs, there is the expectation that you have seen everything. I mean, who wouldn't watch The Simpsons, Family Guy, Deal or No Deal, Jeopardy, Lost, Desperate Housewives, Flip That House, Project Runway, Dancing With Stars, The World Series and Monster Garage all in the same evening?Did I forget Nip/Tuck, Scrubs, Cavemen, Nanny 911, The Search For the Next Elvira, How I Met Your Mother and Green Acres?How about a couple...

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Controlled Rage

Why do we all feel the need to be nice to other people? Sure, it's a great idea to be amiable and generally get along with others, however, we often choose to do so at the expense of ourselves. Maybe we are afraid that others will frown on us or that we'll be excommunicated from our social circles (How will I survive without Bunco nights?), but is the alternative really that much better?Picture this: You are a bank. Rich with deposits from friends and family members. Each of them coming to you daily with quibbles and qualms... about other people."Would it really hurt her to have dinner ready when I come home?""If he picks his nose one more time, I will scream.""If football can be his religion, why can't Home Shopping be mine?"The acrid, often sarcastic comments that we make to one another...

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On the Buzzer

In the past week I have been fortunate enough to beat some amazing game show champions. One of them beat me summarily in return, but that aside, being in the heat of the action reminded me how much competition was lacking in my life. Sure, at work we all fend for the best position. Raises, promotions and the best days off are always jockeyed for. However, beyond that Americans seem to have lost the competitive edge for which we were once known.Nowadays people want to talk or watch movies rather than play sports or a challengeing board game. And those who do choose to compete often do so behind the guise of an internet persona, taking solace in...

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The Proverbial Horse

The gym is calling my name. It's been more than a month since I have had an effective workout and my body is feeling the havoc that my emotional state has wreaked. That said, when do you decide enough is enough. It's been written many times that change is imminent when rock-bottom is reached, but when do you stop beating the horse and get back on the horse.There's a conflict here. You can beat a dead horse, or you can get back on the horse. Of course, getting back on a dead horse seems to have little purpose (much like beating it). Yet, when the horse bucks you off, you want to beat it dead. So Ms. Antoinette, how are we to go about obtaining...

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Fake It Until You Make It

People by nature are predictable. Just like statistics, we generally all average out. However, with free will we can choose to be different and be less predictable. We can do the opposite of our impulses, break our tendencies and put forth a persona that is different from what everyone has known.This is what many people would call "being fake" because one certainly, could not possibly "be real" if they are altering their natural actions, right?Wrong. "Being fake" is nothing more than the initiation of change. Because eventually, if you stick with it long enough, your fake actions will become the real you. So go ahead, do the unnatural. Be awkward. Seek out the new you that you thought never existed. And when you feel that rush; that unknown, slimy, foreign and just plain weird guttural reaction...

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Running on Empty

The Zone. And no, I am not talking about the diet. I'm talking about the zone where your mental acuity is at its sharpest and basic functions seem to go on auto-pilot. It's downright amazing what a person can accomplish while in the zone, but why can't we get there more frequently? After all, it is rare that a person would choose to underperform.I might peg this phenomenon on necessity considering that it almost always occurs when one is put into a "fight or flight" scenario. But what about in situations of pleasure. When someone truly enjoys what they are doing, we will often view them as being consumed by their craft hobby or work. Might they...

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Rage in the Cage

Anger truly is quite a fierce emotion. No other emotion (except for potentially sorrow) seems to have such a drastic effect on a person's demeanor. When anger is exhibited in it's purest form, Rage, the actions of an individual become unpredictable. Fists may fly, expletives may be shouted in blurts, but stranger yet, one may turn internally and swallow all the rage welling up inside them. This pent up aggression is what yields the wildest results, because rage's best friends is time, and should rage be given the opportunity to think of the best way to create chaos, destruction is imminent. It is this calculated rage that often results in crimes...

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Something Like a Phenomenon...

Many of us experience the pain of not being good enough. We get rejected by the opposite sex, defeated by the opposition at sports or simply fail to fit into our favorite pair of jeans. But what about the times when we are too good? Like when we are playing our favorite board game or singing our favorite song at karaoke night. The derisive stares from strangers, and worse yet, friends make you wonder if it is acceptable to excel. Sometimes we even withhold our true talents in order to fit in. Is that right? Or are we lying? It might seem harsh to say, but I propose that purposefully performing below our actual ability is a veritable falsehood. If we can't play our true selves in this comedy of errors known as life, why even bother playing at a...

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Are You Tempted?

In a effort to resist temptation, I've avoided talking about game shows until post number 3. However, I have waited long enough. Temptation: The New Sale of the Century is under fire and the Writer's Guild doesn't seem to be letting up any time soon. But aside from the union conflict, I am more disturbed by the state of game shows on our television landscape. There seems to be a genuine fear to make contestants work for their money. This isn't an anti-big money argument mind you, but I miss watching contestants conquer the seemingly impossible. Winning multiple episodes in a row, solving word puzzles with a single letter revealed, or even finishing the obstacle course with double-digits left on the clock. These feats of grandeur accomplished by everyday people are truly the heart and soul...

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Time Goes By... So Quickly...

Tick Tock... (the clock not the croc) It's amazing how none of us seem to realize how valuable our time is until we have spent it all. Every spare minute is precious, but aside from that, it's amazing when you take the time to realize how much time we waste everyday. From excessive internet usage (which makes my blogging ironic) to comfort time on the porcelain throne (ahhh...), our lives could be just that much more enthralling if we literally took (Yes, I am advocating stealing) the time from wasted activity and spent it the way we wanted. So instead of letting your life schedule you, try scheduling your life the way you want it. It's amazing how a regimented, structured day can be a breeze when the plan is self-creat...

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Let the Blog Begin!

It's the inaugural post of my blog! Here I will share my random thoughts and musings and better yet entertain the masses. Ok, so maybe I'll only entertain a few people, but if you only learn one thing from this blog (yes, there will be a quiz), let it be to always shoot for perfection and accept excellence along the way. That's it. Short and Sweet. Seacrest O...

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